rebekahfox:

September 14,2009. As you all probably know, about 2 and a half years ago me and my bf were in a terrible accident where we almost lost our lives. We were drunk driving(he was driving) and he fell asleep at the wheel, and hit 3 trees. Me&Him both have learned from this mistake because it changed both of our lives forever.

I was 15 years old and he was 17. He was not wearing his seatbelt. But I was. He was ejected through the windshield and prounounced dead at the scene. The doctors worked and managed to save his life thankfully. But During that time I didn’t know if he was alive or not. As for me, i had my seatbelt on, although I don’t remember how. My bf has 4 broken ribs, which punctured holes in his lungs, he shattered his entire left arm, and had to have immediate surgery on his spleen which was ripped in half, and had surgery to restructure his hand. 

I was not ejected from the car, i was pinned inside&had to be cut out. I broke my hips in 2 places, my neck, my spine, collarbone, right leg, and had ligament damage where I could not walk for 6 months. Neither of us where fully recovered until about a year later.  

and i just want to say i’m incredibly blessed to have such a strong boyfriend such as him and relationship that we made it thru that time together and we are both still here today. I would like to say that even though millions of you drink and drive, this CAN happen to you. We didnt think it would, but it happened to us. We put our parents, siblings, and people who loved us in so much pain as well as each other. Mentally and physically. It is 3 years ahead, and we are still together and this accident impacts our lives every single day. 

We’ve been thru a whole lot the past 3 years but always managed to stay positive thru it. We have been thru it all and his love and him as a person is amazing to me. He is strong, handsome, and everythnig I want. I love him to DEATH, and nothing can tear us apart. almost 3 years later and we are still standing strong . I love you♥

The doctors where amazed that BOTH of us survived. They could’nt explain it. We both survived for a reason.

I can’t imagine my life without you.